>>>>The Common Challenges…

1. Stress Management:

Many people struggle with managing stress, which is often accompanied with anxiety and frustration. Let's guide it through, step by step.

A. Identify Core Emotions: The core emotions contributing to stress typically include:

  • Surrendering: Feeling overwhelmed and unable to take control of the situation, leading to a sense of being submerged and submissive.

  • Precising: Stress thrives in a perfectionistic environment. Lack of flexibility and openness to different outcomes can heighten stress levels.

  • Managing: A stressed person may have a strong desire to manage situations but feel incapable of doing so effectively.
  • Sensing: Constantly on the lookout for stressors, unable to view situations objectively.

B. Detangling Core Emotions: Core emotions might conspire and control each other, leading to persistent stress. Meditation and processing these emotions individually can help release their grip.

  • Surrendering: Detangle this emotion by measuring your intensity of surrendering and relaxing. Count up to feel fully relaxed and let go of the stuckness.
  • Precising: Boost your precision without letting it cause stress. Count up and down to enhance mobility of exactness and release stress.
  • Managing: Imagine managing with a core emotion of boosting, not tied to perfectionistic submission. Count up to mindfully apply management and count down to release it.
  • Sensing: Use your sensing ability for positive experiences, empathy, and enjoyment. Detangle sensing from other stress-inducing components by counting up and down.

C. Optimizing Core Emotions: Just like we have detangled the above core emotions, so we will do it with those that we haven't experience before.

  • Boosting: Let's ignite the power of doing and being in charge, instead of being depressed and only worrying.
  • Calculating: Let's utilize the power of calculation based on hard data processing and not only on sensing which creates oftenly false alarms by many.
  • Expanding: Let's broaden our approach on greatness and positivity, rather than micromanaging every detail.

  • Performing: Let's focus on growth rather than on worry and concerns.

  • Enjoying: Let's enjoy life, rather than only trying to manage it.

Process each emotion up and down to activate them when needed, creating a more balanced and empowered life.

 

2. Work-Life Balance:

       Finding a balance between work and personal life is a common challenge, often expressed as guilt or overwhelm. Let's go through the three-step solution.

A. Identify Core Emotion: The difficulty in managing work and personal life can be a co-symptom of anxiety. If this is the case, (or if the overly concerned about it is a symptom of anxiety), then the solution is similar to the previous scenario. However, if the main problem is the scatteredness that tears you between work and personal life, the responsible core emotions are usually as follows:

  1. Sensing: For a person who senses a lot, it is quite difficult to ground themselves. As a result, there might be a struggle with time consumption and task prioritizing and management. Additionally, for a person who relies on 'scanning' rather than hard data analysis, it is very hard to examine the daily routine and create a structured life.
  2. Expanding: A person with a broad approach, rather than a precise one, is more likely to be scattered than collected.
  3. Enjoying: A person who is fun-oriented rather than structured is less likely to manage responsibilities effectively.
  4. Surrender: A person who is submissive rather than assertive finds it harder to take control of their life.

B. Detangling: Since these core emotions are abundant in this person's psyche, they might have conspired together and taken control over the other core emotions, which are suppressed by them. The next step would be to meditate and process these core emotions that the person is preoccupied with, in order to release their sole and conspired control.

  1. Sensing: Since it is very hard for a person who lives on sensation to let go of it completely, it is recommended to process the power of sensing in a mindful way, so that it doesn't trigger when unwanted. By triggering it and counting up and down, it will be much easier to let go and complete the required tasks.
  2. Expanding: A person with a broad approach needs to feel that expansion. However, it feels much better when applied with friendship rather than a scattered approach to time consumption, which makes you feel like a punctured ship. By exercising the power of expanding, you will be able to choose the emotion and use it only when necessary.
  3. Enjoying: A person who is fun-oriented would subconsciously refrain from structure, which limits the chaos. By having the ability to accelerate the enjoyment and release it, it will be easier to structure and achieve balance.
  4. Surrender: A person who prefers to be served would hardly step up and risk their perceived serenity. With mindful acceleration and release of the serenity-core-emotion, it will be much easier to stand up and take on responsibilities.

C. Optimizing: Now that we have learned how our core emotions can be used in both entangled and detangled forms, we can understand the neutrality of the core emotions that we have always kept constrained. Let's open up:

  1. Calculating: For a reasonable approach to time consumption and responsibility.
  2. Precision: For discipline and self-control according to what is more important.
  3. Managing: Learning how to prioritize.
  4. Boost: Taking responsibility for your life and not being manipulated by others.

 

3. Self-Confidence:

Building Self-Confidence is today a common challenge, so let's address it.

A. Identify Core Emotion

The primary challenge with self-confidence is understanding one's place among others. People often have expectations about how others should react to them, and when these expectations aren't met, it can lead to feelings of brokenness. Negative comments or attitudes from others can cause individuals to question their self-worth. However, since these issues originate externally, addressing them requires introspection and identifying core emotions:

  1. Surrender: A submissive person often wonders how others perceive them.
  2. Manage: Feelings of loss trigger the need for self-security.
  3. Sensing: Constantly questioning what others really mean by their words.
  4. Exactness: A tendency towards rigidity.

B. Detangling

These core emotions can dominate a person's psyche, suppressing other emotions. To release this control, one should meditate and process these core emotions:

  1. Surrender: Feeling vulnerable doesn't mean feeling squashed. By meditating on vulnerability, one can change the feeling to acceptance, leading to serenity.
  2. Manage: The need for management should not feel like doubt or a search for security. Mindfully processing this need can lead to self-organization and control, and the ability to let go when nothing more can be added.
  3. Sensing: Choose to use sensory perceptions for positive feelings.
  4. Exactness: Apply exactness mindfully to tasks without letting it constrain you.

C. Optimizing

Having learned how core emotions can be used in both entangled and detangled forms, one can understand their neutrality. Let's embrace also those core emotions that you haven't encountered so far:

  1. Boost: Take responsibility for your life and feel empowered.
  2. Enjoying: Who cares about negative perceptions?
  3. Calculating: Understand data as it is and reduce unnecessary ramifications.
  4. Broadening: Don't fear flattery; embrace it.

 

4. Relationship Issues:

        Navigating relationship challenges often results is such emotions like anger, sadness, and loneliness. But it doesn't have to be so.

A. Identify Core Emotion

        Frustration is often projected onto others, but resolving it requires addressing our own core emotions:

  1. Surrender: A submissive person who lacks self-boosting and empowerment relies heavily on others rather than themselves.
  2. Manage: The need to manage things under the table worsens situations and hinders acceptance.
  3. Exactness: Rigidity exacerbates issues and prevents taking a stand.
  4. Sensing: Constant doubts, suspicions, and conspiracy theories keep sensors always on.

B. Detangling

These dominant core emotions can suppress other emotions. To release their control, meditation and mindful processing are essential:

  1. Surrender: Mindfully meditating on vulnerability allows us to embrace it without running away, balancing it with empowerment.
  2. Manage: Mindfully meditating on 'management' helps us understand how to use it appropriately, rather than covertly.
  3. Exactness: Mindful meditation on 'exactness' allows its application without constraint.
  4. Sensing: Choosing to use our sensory perceptions for positive feelings.

C. Optimizing

Understanding the neutrality of core emotions in both entangled and detangled forms allow us to embrace those we've constrained:

  1. Boost: Take responsibility for your life and feel empowered.
  2. Enjoying: Clap, sing, and recognize the good things in your life.
  3. Calculating: Calculate your steps and reduce unnecessary ramifications.
  4. Broadening: Embrace flattery and openhearted friendship promotes a healthy relationship.

 

 

5. Too Much Controlling:

       Some people suffer in relationships, not from being too submissive, but from being overly dominant and controlling. While this may seem beneficial at first, it can backfire when they lose all the friends and relatives.

A. Identify Core Emotion: Let's find the issues in our core emotions:

  1. Boost: We are always dominant, not allowing ourselves to receive or to submit to reception.
  2. Managing: We are always directing, assuming fears, and terrifying people.
  3. Broadening: While we love the people around us, we want to include them in our way of thinking and control every aspect of them.
  4. Calculating: Our brain is calculating the steps to manipulate.
  5. Precising: We want everyone around us to think exactly as we do.

B. Detangling: Since these core emotions dominate this person's psyche, they might have conspired together and taken control over other suppressed emotions. The next step is to meditate and process these core emotions to release their sole and conspired control.

  1. Boost: By meditating on 'boosting' as a stand-alone core emotion, we teach ourselves how to empower others to leadership in their lives, rather than under our complete control.
  2. Managing: By meditating on 'managing' as a stand-alone core emotion, we teach ourselves to manage affairs as they should be, not according to our agenda.
  3. Broadening: By meditating on 'broadening' as a stand-alone core emotion, we learn to love people and give them what they need, not just what we want.
  4. Calculating: By meditating on 'calculating' as a stand-alone core emotion, we learn to assess situations and solutions as they are, not as part of our complications.
  5. Precising: By meditating on 'precision' as a stand-alone core emotion, we learn to correct ourselves, not just others.

C. Optimizing: Now that we've learned how our core emotions can be used in both entangled and detangled forms, we can understand the neutrality of the core emotions we always kept constrained. Let's open up:

  1. Surrender: Yes, sometimes we need to submit.
  2. Enjoy: Let go of control and start to enjoy a little.
  3. Sensing: Let's sense some of the pain that others experience.

 

 

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